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I wake up every morning with choices. Choices that, for much of history, women could never dream of making. Choices that dictate how I shape my day, my career, my family, and my voice in the world. To be a woman in Canada today is to exist with freedoms and opportunities that were once radical ideas, dismissed as impossible, dangerous, or unnecessary. And for that, I am profoundly grateful.
Yet, gratitude does not mean forgetting the past. It means recognizing the cost of progress, honoring the struggles of those who came before us, and acknowledging that there is still work to be done. It means understanding that the privilege of choice was not handed to women—it was fought for, earned with sacrifice, and built upon the shattered remnants of oppression.
A Past of Pain and Constraint
Throughout history, women’s bodies, minds, and lives have been controlled in ways that are nearly incomprehensible today. In imperial China, the practice of foot binding crushed the bones of young girls’ feet, a grotesque reshaping of their bodies into symbols of submission and beauty. The pain was unending, and the message was clear: a woman’s worth was in her stillness, her fragility, her ability to be contained.
The story of oppression is not limited to one country or culture. For centuries, women across the world were denied the right to work, to vote, to inherit property, or to receive an education. Marriage was often a contract of control rather than a partnership. Domestic abuse was ignored as a private matter, and a woman’s dreams were secondary to the expectations placed upon her. Even in Canada, women had to fight for the right to vote, to attend university, to have autonomy over their own bodies, and to be seen as individuals rather than extensions of their husbands and fathers.
The Power of Progress
And yet, change came. Women spoke out. They resisted. They defied expectations and demanded better. In Canada today, I can walk into a boardroom and be heard, run for office and be elected, raise children and maintain a career, speak my mind without legal repercussions, and own property in my own name. These are rights I do not take for granted.
More importantly, the empowerment of women has not only lifted women—it has elevated everyone. When women are educated, economies grow. When women are treated as equals in relationships, families thrive. When women have the right to make choices about their bodies and futures, societies become more compassionate and just.
The fight for equality has never been about diminishing men; it has been about expanding humanity. It has given fathers the freedom to be nurturing, emotional, and active in their children’s lives. It has allowed men to shed the suffocating expectations of unyielding strength and silence. It has made space for collaboration, partnership, and deeper human connection.
A Life of Fulfillment, for All
We are in an era where men and women alike can aspire to live their full emotional, intellectual, and social lives. Women can be leaders, scientists, artists, and athletes, without being told they are out of place. Men can be caregivers, nurturers, and emotional pillars, without being seen as weak. We are in a time where the barriers of gender are dissolving, where possibilities expand beyond the constraints of the past.
There are still battles to be fought—glass ceilings that need to be shattered, biases that persist, inequalities that demand our attention. But today, in Canada, I am free to think, to speak, to learn, to love, and to grow. And for that, I am deeply, endlessly grateful.
Let us never forget how far we have come, nor take for granted the freedoms we hold. Instead, let us honor this privilege by continuing to push for a world where every human being—regardless of gender—can live their fullest, most vibrant life.
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