[Written with help from Poe. Image credit]
To my beautiful daughters,
As I sit down to write this, I’m flooded with memories and emotions that weave together the fabric of our family. Reflecting on my own teenage years, I can’t help but chuckle at the rebellious spirit that once drove me to challenge my parents. My mother, in her moments of exasperation, would often declare, “Someday you’ll have daughters of your own!” Little did I know, those words would echo back to me years later.
When I welcomed you both into this world, I felt a blend of joy and trepidation. I remembered the warnings of a wise colleague who jokingly lamented that his daughters were so much nicer to him than to his wife. As you approached your teenage years, I couldn’t shake off that worry. Would I be met with the same challenges my parents faced? Would I find myself grappling with misunderstandings and frustrations?
I am grateful to say that my experience has been different. Through a series of fortunate moments and lessons learned, I have been blessed to navigate this journey with you two in ways I never imagined. Your empathy, communication skills, and maturity have not only eased my worries but have transformed my parenting experience into something profoundly beautiful.
Every time you share a funny Instagram post that makes us laugh together, or send me a string of heart emojis that lights up my day, I am reminded of the bond we share. Those cozy movie nights, curled up together with popcorn and laughter, remind me that the love we have is deep and abiding. And reliving your childhood through old baby videos fills my heart with nostalgia and joy, reminding me of how far we’ve come together.
Thank you for being the incredible young women you are. Your kindness and understanding are gifts that I cherish daily. In you, I see not just my daughters, but also my friends and partners in this life. As we continue to navigate these teenage years together, know that I am endlessly grateful for each moment we share.
With all my love,
Mom
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